Sunday, November 06, 2011

Work and marriage life


I miss my exboss!
Another two months have passed. Been busy till do not have enough time to write at all.After married around 5 months, the most popular question is "when are u planning to have kids?","are u pregnant?". Parents and frens all asking on this question. Stress giler. Guess not that fast, it has to be natural,right? Trust me, I am working hard on it. Hopefully, soon. When u are married, your school frens wont come to look for you anymore, same scenerio with unimates. Thats the difference between a single and married life. I no longer spending the time to online after work but I spend time cooking and watching tv together with my hubby, feeding my dog,and cleaning up the house. Cleaning and tidying up the house seems like a never ending task. Anyway, although there are always obstacles, but now, i know there is always someone there to support me. Arguments is unavoidable but we learn to tolerate with each other. It seriously not easy as we have gone ups and downs till the part we decided to tied the knot. There are a few times, I want to give up on the relationship but the truth is, if you really love someone, u wont easily give up one. Regarding work, it has been hell. Work like shit, stress giler and in the end, u find out your boss doesnt appreciate your work. This year has been a really hell for me at work ever since my exboss tender her resignation on May 2011. Life has been hell ever since this new boss of mine takes over. He is damn kiamsap type one till the extend, on my birthday, he never want to share the birthday cake but he still eats the cake. Thick skin,right? Really fed up with him especially he didnt promote me in Sept this year. False promises was given, and i just gave him a deaf ears. Teruk and cilaka boss!

Friday, August 05, 2011

Officially Mrs Teh, a wife, a housekeeper , and a dog caretaker





Read my title..yea, it has been almost 3 months that we officially get married. It is suppose to be a series of happiness but it turns out to be a series of unfortunate events. In summary, our house was break in during our honeymoon, I had a serious car accident in June and thank god, it was the end of the series(I hope so). Our wedding day in Melaka was a good one with nice weather and surrounded by our beloved ex Digizen frens and my uni mates, family , and relatives. Eeverything went smooth and as for the Ipoh wedding, it was great also except there are a few of my frens unable to attend in the last minute. Not going to elaborate much on the house break in as it was seriously a nightmare and something I wont want to think about further. The car accident was horrified too. Well, I adopt a puppy to guard the house in the future and his name is lucky. My neighbours hated him but I thank god he was slightly better than the legendary "Marley".Need to stop as lazy to write further. Looking forward to go back Ipoh tomorrow...

Wednesday, April 13, 2011

Weee...Getting married



Walaoweh, cant believe it has been three months. The number of events happen...everything was so rush.Yes, one of the biggest event of my life is coming very soon. Everything was decided that it should be held on the 30 oct 2011 but unfortunely, my mum in law passed away two months back. Well, the month of Feb was a nightmare for both of us. It is suppose to be a happy month due to we are getting registered on 27 Feb 2011 but things turn out badly for my mother in law(it was future mother in law at that time).The rushing to the hospital, the medical bills(the amount really freaks me out), the shouting and yelling at each other, the crying. I didnt even enjoy CNY at all due to she was admitted to hospital on 1st day and the discharge on 2nd day of CNY and went back in on third day of cny.Words actually cant describe my feeling and what I been through that month. The burden and sadness was much more heavier for my hubby.On the last day of CNY, it was all so sudden. My hubby rush back all the way and I cant fall asleep at all and the news came through my hp that she passed away. I feel sad , very sad although I met her few times only . I told myself, think positive, at least she no longer suffering.Her medical bills accumulated up to 30k. Well, decision was made that wedding will be held on 15 May 2011 and my side will be 21 May 2011. Although sad but reality is cruel, life jus have to go on. I am sure she is happy that someone can take good care of her son(she did mention this before).

Well, our registration was very simple. Pre wedding pics taken....and I am nervous/excited...It is around 1 month more only. No time to diet...become fat fat bride...no choice..